Maria’s Story

When she was in her forties and fifties, Maria Thompson, 66, never gave much thought to getting older. “Aging seemed a little distance away,” she says. “I didn’t take it that seriously.”

Recently, Maria retired and had to start watching her spending. Her relationships with family were also strained. “I started wondering how am I going to age by myself?” she says.

Several months into the pandemic, Maria received an email about Aging Solo – Iona’s six week online series that addresses the practical aspects of planning for aging.” I wanted to learn what I need to do to put myself in a position where in old age and death I don’t impose on anyone,” she says.

Fortunately, Aging Solo is an affordable program for older adults with limited income—and Maria was able to enroll immediately. As part of her course, Maria met weekly on Zoom with a group of older adults, guest experts, and facilitators who led discussions and shared resources.

“At first I was overwhelmed” says Maria. “But I started hammering through the booklet, and I called Iona’s Helpline. It helped me make some real concrete decisions.”

One of the biggest changes in Maria’s life has been downsizing her apartment. “Because of Aging Solo, I knew that now was the time to do it,” she says. “I’m glad I did. There was so much stuff I didn’t want, need, or even remember I had!”

Now, as a member of Aging Solo, Maria has been able to strengthen her social network. “I have been much more proactive in solidifying my friendships and family ties-which is a major step for
me,” she says. “I have gotten much closer to my sisters, aunts, cousins, and nieces, and it has made me feel so connected.”

“Every person aged 55 and older should take Aging Solo,” says Maria. “It’s a very important program.”